The thing is, if you really think about it, a lot of the advice we give can be applied to any situation. After all, work and life aren’t all that separate from one another. Many of the lessons you learn from your job can shape your personal life, and vice versa.
1. There’s No Such Thing as the “Right” Decision
You make tons of decisions each and every day. And feeling like you have a tiny devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other, both weighing in on every major choice and insignificant call—like whether you should order an iced coffee or iced tea—is exhausting.
Stop overanalyzing all the small decisions you make in a day and instead lean on how you feel and what you know to be true. You can’t go wrong that way.
2. Clear Communication Is the Key to a Successful Relationship
That goes for colleagues and bosses as well as friends, romantic partners, and family members. Miscommunication happens all the time both in the workplace and beyond it. But you can fix that once you start speaking confidently and directly.
3. Nobody Knows What They’re Doing 100% of the Time
No matter how much you stay organized and think ahead, you’ll never be fully prepared for what life throws your way—whether it’s a tricky client or company restructuring, or an apartment flood or parenting issue. Life’s unpredictable and imperfect. There’s no need to have it all figured out—nobody does.
4. You Don’t Need to Take Everyone’s Advice to Heart
Sure, you should be open to feedback. But that doesn’t mean you’re going to agree with all of it—or even that you have to implement it. Everyone’s going to have different advice on how you should manage your team, run a meeting, or where you should take your career. Or, they might weigh in with their opinions about your cleaning habits, hobbies, or relationships. The key is to take that input into consideration and make the call that’s best for you.
5. Writing Can Help You Out of a Slump
If you feel like you’re caught in a career rut—or any rut for that matter—freewriting can help you out of it. It works because there are no expectations for what you write, what you think, or how you feel. It’s about processing your internal monologue on paper so you can get a better handle on where you’re feeling stuck.
6. You’re Allowed to Leave Behind Things That Don’t Fulfill You
Sometimes certain things look and feel rosier in your imagination than in reality. As you experience new things in your life, you might be surprised to find that your interests lie elsewhere. It’s OK to change course, and it’s OK if you leave behind something that you once valued or loved.
7. Nothing You Do Is a Waste
Lost friendships and relationships aren’t a waste of time. Neither was your last job or your failed side project. In fact, it was probably the stepping stone you needed to get to where you are now. Consider how far you’ve come, instead. You’ve gained so much because of those things you’ve “lost”—remember to focus on that.
Your career and life are more intertwined than you think. So, don’t forget to consider all that tried and true career advice when making decisions outside the office, too.